The Unspoken Rules for Men: An Insightful Guide to Etiquette and Integrity

Kamlesh Sonawane

Pune, 18 July 2024: In today’s fast-paced world, certain timeless principles continue to guide the behavior and integrity of individuals.

1. Never shake a hand sitting down. Standing up during a handshake shows respect and engagement, signifying that you value the person you are meeting.

2. Protect who is behind you, and respect who is beside you. Loyalty and honor are key. Protecting those behind you means safeguarding loved ones, while respecting peers signifies recognizing their value.

3. Never insult the cooking when you are the guest. Show gratitude and respect for hospitality by appreciating the effort put into preparing a meal.

4. Never eat the last piece of something you didn’t buy. Courtesy and consideration for others’ contributions demonstrate respect for shared resources.

5. Never make the first offer in a negotiation. Allowing the other party to make the first offer can provide strategic advantages and better negotiating terms.

6. Don’t take credit for work you didn’t do. Integrity in acknowledging others’ efforts builds trust and credibility.

7. Take the blame, and give credit when due. Owning mistakes and recognizing contributions fosters respect and trust.

8. If you are not invited, don’t ask to go. Respecting boundaries and invitations maintains good social etiquette.

9. Always aim for the head. Strive for excellence and precision in your efforts, aiming to be the best.

10. Don’t beg for a relationship. Maintaining self-respect and dignity ensures healthy relationship dynamics.

11. Dress well no matter what the occasion. Good grooming and appropriate dressing reflect self-respect and respect for others.

12. Always carry cash. Being prepared for various situations, including emergencies, demonstrates foresight and responsibility.

13. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact. Active listening and engagement are crucial for effective communication.

14. Show restraint in expressing anger. Managing anger maintains composure and promotes rational decision-making.

15. Avoid placing your phone on the dinner table. Prioritizing face-to-face interactions shows respect and attentiveness.

16. Never pose with alcohol. Maintaining a responsible image is important to avoid conveying unprofessionalism.

17. Proper grammar will get you far in life. Good communication skills enhance credibility and professionalism.

18. Ask more than you answer. Showing interest in others by asking questions fosters better relationships and understanding.

19. You can tell a great deal about a person by their handshake. A firm handshake conveys confidence and sincerity, often forming the first impression.

20. Speak honestly. Honesty builds trust and integrity, fostering deeper connections and mutual respect.

About the Writer:

Kamlesh Sonawane is an Industrial Psychologist with over 12 years of experience. He has worked with prestigious organizations such as the Maharashtra Forest Department, Fergusson College, the Police Department, hospitals, and various social organizations and corporate entities. His extensive experience and insightful observations make him a valuable source of guidance on personal and professional development.